G-2LCWV30QZ8 Kamala Harris, Nelly & The Disrespect Black Women Endure - TonyTidbit: A Black Executive Perspective

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Kamala Harris, Nelly & The Disrespect Black Women Endure

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In this episode of 'Need to Know,' Dr. Nsenga Burton addresses controversial comments made by rapper Nelly about Vice President Kamala Harris. She provides an in-depth analysis of Nelly's history, his problematic behavior, and his recent actions, including performing at Donald Trump's inauguration. Dr. Burton also defends Kamala Harris's record, highlighting her contributions to criminal justice and education. The episode calls for accountability and respect from Black men towards Black women, emphasizing the significant role of Black women in society. Dr. Burton concludes with a heartfelt message of support and respect for Black women.


▶︎ In This Episode

00:00: Introduction and Welcome

00:18: Nelly's Controversial Comments on Kamala Harris

00:37: Nelly's Problematic History

02:36: Kamala Harris's Achievements and Misconceptions

04:22: Nelly's Personal Life and Advice

06:29: Final Thoughts and Farewell

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Dr. Nsenga Burton:

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A black Executive Perspective.

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Now presents need to know with

the award-winning hyphenated Dr.

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Nsenga Burton.

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Dr.

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Burton, what do we need to know?

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Good afternoon and welcome

to Need To Know with Dr.

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Nsenga Burton.

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I am she.

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Today I'd like to talk to you about

a washed up rapper named Nelly who,

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uh, has come under Under fire for, um.

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Saying negative things about Kamala

Harris, namely that, uh, he's more black

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than she is 'cause he married a black

woman and she's married to a white man.

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So I don't even really know to start

where to start 'cause Nelly has just

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been problematic his entire career.

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Um, whether you talk about, uh,

the misogyny in his music, whether

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you talk about, you know, the

fact that he lost a sister, um.

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And really needed black women to

donate bone marrow to save her.

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And it just didn't happen.

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Um, and not because people were

like, I'm not gonna give it to him.

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But if people were gonna do that,

they weren't gonna do it for

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someone who just continues to say

negative things about black women.

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So then he circled the black and

he and Ashanti are back together

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and you know, we kind of love it.

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Like people like that they got

back together and all of that.

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It's really sweet.

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Story.

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Um, so we are not, you know, totally

hating on Nelly, but then he does stuff

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like performs for 47 and his inauguration.

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Um, you know, and doesn't see why

that's a big deal, even though you

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know it's problematic when you're

a black man supporting a white

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nationalist white supremacist who's

in bed with working with other white

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nationalists and white supremacists

and has been, um, doing everything he

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can to enact policies and laws that dis

disenfranchise your people, black people.

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Um, erase us from history.

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That means Nelly, you're not gonna be in

there for your hot and here single, you're

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Grammy, you are not gonna be in there.

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Um, erasing black people history, um,

and all the things that is hap that he's

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doing, including this big beautiful bill,

which a lot of those, um, things that

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happen are gonna impact black people.

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Whether you are a mom, uh, you're a

veteran, um, you're a college student, all

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of that is going to negatively impact you.

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So the fact that Nelly just won't

fall on the sword and just say.

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I was wrong or hey, I did it, it

probably wasn't the best decision.

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I needed the money, or I wanted the money.

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It was too good to walk away.

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That would be like acceptable to me.

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Like, 'cause that's keeping

it real and being honest.

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But whenever you, um, pivot or you try to

deflect and then blame a black woman like

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Kamala Harris who hasn't, you know, who

allegedly hasn't done anything for black

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people, but put black people in jail.

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So what I need you to know is

that Kamala Harris actually

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was prosecuting sex crimes.

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So all you people who keep going online

talking about she put my cousin in jail,

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stop telling your cousin's business.

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'cause that means they

probably were a sex offender.

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She also, uh, prosecuted

crimes against, um, uh, uh, the

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environment, environmental crimes.

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So those were the two groups

of crimes that she prosecuted.

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So, you know, unless your

cousin is a tree or something.

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You proud, you know, if you, your

cousin was out there burning down trees,

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starting fires and shit in California,

and we know what that looks like.

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They probably went to jail.

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So this idea that she was just, you

know, going around and just, you

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know, just, uh, corralling black men

and throwing 'em in jail is false.

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Um, and then the black men who did

go to jail needed to go to jail.

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'cause, you know, sexual crimes

should be prosecuted and those are

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the people we actually want in jail.

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We want them in prison.

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Um, and then, you know, she also

started the, the nation's first.

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Um, program to help, um, low

level offenders get back into

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the workplace, the workforce.

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Uh, so she's done some incredible things.

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We're not gonna even talk about

the billions of dollars of

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student debt that she canceled.

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We're not gonna talk about

the $170 billion she gave to

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HBCUs on her way out the door.

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Um, we're not gonna talk

about the legislation.

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She, uh, helped pass, um, when they

were, uh, white nationalists, white

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supremacists, you know, Donald Trump's

people, Nelly, them people, um, were

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threatening to bomb HBCUs, uh, including

the one where my nephew was at the time.

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Um, so Kamala Harris has done

a lot of great things that we

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can continue to talk about.

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Um, um, but I don't wanna talk about that.

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I wanna talk about you jackass.

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I wanna say this.

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First of all, people can date

and love who they wanna love.

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That doesn't make them less black,

doesn't make them more white.

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It doesn't make them more white

or black or Latinx or whatever.

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Life is short.

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You should be with

whomever you wanna be with.

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Secondly, as we see with you, 'cause you

are a black man, just because you are

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black doesn't mean that you are for us.

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So a lot of people married to

black people who are not for them.

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I don't know your business.

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I don't know your situation.

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I'm just gonna pray very hard for

Ashanti and your children, because

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your record was women and I'm not,

I'm talking about the arrests.

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Yeah.

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Uhhuh and the claim claims of sexual

abuse and battery the three times.

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Yeah.

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You should not be, you don't have

a leg, a kickstand to stand on.

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You just don't have it.

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So what you should not do is talk

about women ever just shut up.

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And talk about your life.

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You talk about your sister.

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You seem to be a good dad

from your previous job.

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Um, so you have great

relationship with your children.

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It looks like that.

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Anyway, um, so focus on that and stay

outta politics and not, because, you know,

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I'm not one of those people who, like

celebrities shouldn't be in the politics.

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Celebrities can do whatever they want.

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They're human beings.

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Citizens of the United States

can do whatever they want.

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You can participate, but please know

what the hell you're talking about.

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And stop deflecting.

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And if you really wanna be a good

role model to your children, be a man.

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And say, listen, that probably

wasn't the best decision to make.

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If I had to do it again, maybe I

wouldn't, but this is why I did it.

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And stop trying to throw other people

under the bus who haven't done anything

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to you and have done 2 billion times more

for our community than you have done ever.

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So your little foundation is cute and

all, but yeah, until you cancel, uh,

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$180 billion in student debt debt.

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Positively impacted black people's lives.

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Everybody's lives, not just

us, a lot of students' lives.

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And so you put that $180 billion

into HBCUs, shut the fuck up.

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That's all I have to say.

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So, um, tune in next week to

A black Executive Perspective

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podcast with Tony and Chris.

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It's award-winning.

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You should definitely tune in and

of course to need to know with Dr.

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Nsenga Burton.

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And I'm sorry for the, um,

bad language, my mother.

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It's probably clutching her

pearls right now, but, um, I

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just feel very strongly about it.

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And I'm really tired of the

misogyny, the misogyny and

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misogynoir coming from our black men.

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Um, when black women largely uphold them.

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Um, we marry you.

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We have your children,

uh, we take care of you.

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Um.

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And we do the best that we can and

we're not always perfect, but at

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least we're present and we try.

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So give us our respect, um,

because we've earned it.

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Have a wonderful day.

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Goodbye.

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