BEP Insights-Accountability in Law Enforcement and Leadership
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In this episode of the Black Executive Perspective Podcast, hosts Tony Tidbit and Chris P. Reed delve into pressing issues surrounding race, accountability, and psychological competency in leadership roles, especially law enforcement. The discussion highlights a recent tragic incident involving the killing of Sonya Massey by a police officer. It contrasts it with another case where a white woman firing a gun in a police station was handled non-lethally. The podcast champions the need for mandatory psychological evaluations in key positions and calls for consistent accountability and justice. The episode also emphasizes the importance of ongoing learning, empathy, and proactive measures in creating a better, fairer world.
▶︎ In This Episode
- 00:00: Introduction and Initial Discussion
- 00:34: Podcast Introduction and Sponsors
- 01:43: Vacation and Current Events
- 03:08: Qualifications for Roles and Psychological Evaluations
- 04:42: Discussion on Presidential Competency
- 21:43: Law Enforcement and Psychological Testing
- 27:17: Case Study: Sonya Massey Incident
- 30:55: Police Arrive at the Scene
- 31:40: Unexpected Turn of Events
- 31:59: Analyzing the Officer's Actions
- 34:03: Accountability in Law Enforcement
- 36:27: The Importance of Psychological Screening
- 51:04: Comparing Police Responses
- 55:23: Final Thoughts and Reflections
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:Why didn't the partner say my partner
shot this lady in the face for no reason?
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:Where was that?
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:There was a total cover up
until the video came out.
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:Then they fired him.
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:That's the issue.
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:There's a million issues here,
but the partner was there.
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:He saw it.
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:Where did that go?
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:We'll discuss race and how it plays
a factor and how we didn't even talk
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:about this topic because we were afraid.
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:BEP Narrator: A Black
Executive Perspective.
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:Tony Tidbit: Welcome to the Black
Executive Perspective Podcast, a
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:safe space where we discuss all
matters related to race, especially
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:race in corporate America.
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:I'm your host, Tony Tidbit.
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:Chris P. Reed: And I'm
your co host, Chris P.
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:Reed.
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:Tony Tidbit: And again,
we are live at WNHU 88.
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:7 on the Richter dial here at
the University of New Haven.
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continual partnership with A Black
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shout out our partners at CODE M Magazine,
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:It's all about fitness and mental
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:So definitely go and check them out.
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:So if you, you know, obviously it's the
summertime and people are in and out.
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:Vacations, the whole nine
yards runs the gamut here.
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:Right.
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:And you know, look, I was on vacation
the last couple of weeks as well.
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:Uh, with my family in Martha's
Vineyard, uh, for two weeks,
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:having a really, really good time.
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:Right.
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:However, when you're on vacation,
the world don't stop turning.
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:All right.
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:Stuff still comes up and keeps happening.
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:Right.
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:And so based on that, Chris and
myself wanted to dive into some
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:of the topics that have happened
over the last couple of weeks.
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:And we want to give you our point
of view on some of these areas.
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:And we, and trust me, um, there's,
like I said, the world keeps turning.
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:And so there's a lot of
things that's been going on.
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:So today.
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:For this episode, we're going to
discuss these, these topics, give
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:our point of view, and then more
importantly, hope that you definitely
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:see where we're coming from.
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:Because at the end of the day,
discussion is always about learning.
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:And our goal is to learn from
what's happening in the world.
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:So we can hopefully make
the world a better place.
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:What's your thoughts on that?
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:My brother,
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:Chris P. Reed: man, I think that's
exactly what we need to write this time.
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:And I think we're going
to do a good job of it.
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:And I think the people enjoy it.
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:Tony Tidbit: All right, my man.
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:So look, let's don't hold them up.
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:Are you ready to talk about it?
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:Chris P. Reed: I'm ready.
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:Tony Tidbit: All right,
let's talk about it.
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:Chris P. Reed: So, the 1st thing I
wanted to get into is probably going
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:to cascade into the other things that
we have before us, but that is what are
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:the qualifications for certain roles.
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:And 1 of the things that I think we
should really look at and investigate.
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:We, we, we, it would do us justice to
explore the mandatory psychological
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:evaluations that are aligned with
certain positions, especially those
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:that are in government law enforcement.
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:All right.
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:and judicial, you know, responsibilities.
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:And the reason why that is is because
you should have to have a certain
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:Psychological acumen in order to
facilitate roles that are responsible
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:for the prosperity and the protection
and the oversight of humanity.
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:Right?
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:And so a couple of examples that
we'll talk about, but tell me what
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:your thoughts is on those type
of mandatory things put in place.
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:Tony Tidbit: So, so number one, I mean,
this is something you wanted to bring up.
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:And, and, um, number one, you said a
couple of words to start laughing because
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:they've been, these words have been big
time over the last two, three weeks, no
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:one, you said qualifications and then
you psychological, uh, not psychological
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:safety, but psychological, uh, um, What's
the word I'm looking for that you're
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:competent psychological competency, right?
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:And, and so, so those things have been,
um, big over the last couple of weeks.
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:So do me a favor dive into when you're
talking about psychological competency.
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:For basic qualifications for certain
roles, elaborate, what do you mean?
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:So
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:Chris P. Reed: the easy one, low hanging
fruit at this point in time is the
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:GOP's assertion that Joe Biden wasn't
mentally competent to run the free world.
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:Okay.
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:He wasn't qualified mentally to
hold the position that we were
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:paying him to hold as the commander
in chief leader at a free world.
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:Tony Tidbit: Okay.
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:Chris P. Reed: And there was
some back and forth about that.
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:And.
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:Ironically, there are some
positions, some roles.
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:I got a boy that's a air traffic
control and 1 of the qualification
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:1 of the mandates in air traffic
control is at the age of 52, you
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:should be retiring and they did some
type of, uh, understanding or equation
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:to where you start to lose certain.
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:Capacities and focus and
things of that nature.
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:So you're compensated
loaded on the front end.
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:Because they know that around 52,
you're going to be up out of there.
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:You got to find something else to do,
whether they're still in that vein or not.
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:They don't want you watching planes and
being vigilant with your eyes and them
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:dark rooms and all that kind of stuff.
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:That's smart.
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:I love that.
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:I love that.
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:Right.
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:Makes sense.
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:But it's an understood dynamic that
with age becomes mental degradation.
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:Um, but it's also a situation where
your prejudice, your bias, the
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:baggage that you bring into roles.
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:Maybe shouldn't be aligned with certain
responsibilities that roles have,
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:like a police officer, like a judge,
like a president of the United States.
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:So not only should we be wagging our
finger at somebody too old and passing.
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:Cognitive dissonance test.
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:But we should also be saying, should this
person represent the free world based on
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:their psychological makeup, based on how
they see things and how they interact,
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:because some sociopaths it's great for
a CEO to not care about numbers and
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:cut thousands of people's job and not
care about the repercussive actions.
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:That's not great for a leader
of people in a society.
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:Tony Tidbit: Right.
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:Chris P. Reed: And I think that
one of the feedback that you'll
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:receive about Donald Trump.
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:Particularly is he that's just
Trump being Trump and he just crazy.
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:He's just going to say whatever,
but this role doesn't call for that.
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:This role calls for decorum.
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:This role call for presidential kind of
executive positioning and responsibility.
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:You can't be a wild card and
then you can lead everybody.
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:Tony Tidbit: So go ahead
and finish your thoughts.
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:I
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:Chris P. Reed: just think that if
we had somebody learned and trained
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:and that had put something together
to say, these are the steps you
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:have, these are the prerequisites.
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:To fit this role,
psychological prerequisites.
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:We might not be in this
position we're in now, bro.
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:Tony Tidbit: So, so
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:you said a lot there.
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:Okay.
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:A lot.
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:And there's, we could
talk about this all day.
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:Cause we can go in a million ways, right?
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:You use the air traffic controller, um,
who obviously that person has millions
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:of people's lives in their hand, right?
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:One mistake, thousands of people,
hundreds of people can die.
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:Right.
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:So, you know, uh, evidently they
came up with some type of, you know,
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:You know, mechanism to say, you get
to a certain age, you, you start,
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:uh, decreasing in your ability to
be able to stay, uh, competent in
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:terms of being able to do that.
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:Now, let's be fair, you know, and then
again, this is where we get into trouble.
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:It's because every person
that's 52 ain't 52.
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:Every person that's 70 ain't 70.
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:And, you know, so we, so that's
where the gray areas come into.
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:Okay.
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:Because we all don't age the same, our
brains don't diminish the same, you
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:know, so, so that's the great, that's
the rub, that's the, the hard thing to,
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:to, to, to put it to the, to define and
say specifically, um, you're done right
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:now, all that being said to your point,
I think there is a thing that you have
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:to, at least people should be getting
tested when you're in these roles.
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:Constantly.
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:Okay.
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:And, and so when we look at
Joe Biden and Donald Trump.
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:You know, so, and again,
this is our opinions.
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:Okay.
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:These are things that we believe
based on our experiences and that
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:we're going to talk about, right.
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:You know, and we know when you
have the highest, when you hold
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:the highest office in the land, all
right, which is the president of the
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:United States, it's going to age you.
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:All right.
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:If you look at every president
that went in, all right.
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:And then four years later, what they
looked like eight years later, Okay.
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:They're totally different individuals.
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:And rightfully so, because you're
carrying weight on every little thing
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:that when you and I go to sleep,
we ain't thinking about, all right.
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:And it's not just what's happening
in the United States, it's global.
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:So you're going to age, right?
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:That's number one.
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:Okay.
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:And I think we're at an area now,
and let's be fair now, because I,
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:you know, like I said earlier, every
50, every number, ain't the same.
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:You know, when I was a kid, You know,
our parents, they were 40, 50, they
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:were like, they ain't go make it.
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:All right.
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:Because they didn't take care of
themselves where today people are 50
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:and they're like the new 50 is a new 40.
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:All right.
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:60 is the new 50, but we're talking
different type of things here.
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:Right.
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:We're talking good.
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:You brought up is there certain
positions that psychologically
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:you got to be squared away.
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:Right.
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:Yes.
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:And then sometimes the people
calling or saying that you're not
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:psych psychologically competent.
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:Is the person that
psychologically competent.
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:All right.
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:So, so who's who's testing who?
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:Yeah, who's who's testing who?
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:All right.
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:And so I remember we're on
vacation, uh, Gayle and I.
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:Oh, no, no, this was probably
before we were on vacation
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:after they had the first debate.
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:And let's be fair.
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:And again, this is my opinion.
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:And I saw the first debate, I'm
sorry, Joe Biden, you did a good job.
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:At the end of the day, it's just time.
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think it's less than him.
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:He's crazy.
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:It's just age has caught up with him.
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:And, and, and here's the thing
though, when you're on a debate
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:stage, what is a debate stage about?
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:Chris P. Reed: About the
facts about, uh, information,
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:Tony Tidbit: right?
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:So somebody saying you're saying one
thing, somebody saying, nah, that ain't
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:And then you got to have your wits about
you to be able to challenge or push back
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:immediately based on what is being set.
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:And we saw that he couldn't do that.
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:Right.
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:And, and the right thing to do in
my opinion, and I think a lot of
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:people was for him to bow out and let
somebody, you know, new come in and
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:look, we have these things now where
people say we should put age limits.
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:Um, there should be.
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:And, and, and I'm gonna be honest
with you in those type of roles.
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:I think that kind of makes sense.
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:But here's the thing, the point I
wanted to go and I'm gonna turn the
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:mic back over to you is that, um, Okay.
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:Me and we were watching, I think it was
CBS this morning and stuff like that.
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:And they were asking people, uh,
what was their opinion of the debate?
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:And, and, and, and, and is Joe, Joe,
Joe Biden or Donald Trump too old.
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:And this one guy, this one guy
said, and it had me dying laughing.
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:He said, look, he said, they're both old.
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:Right.
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:He said, one person is
slowing down because of age.
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:The other one is just unhinged.
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:I started laughing because I
thought it was really funny, right?
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:But to your point, who's to say?
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:I just think I'm going
back to what you're saying.
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:Yes, there should be some level.
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:And you talked about police officers
and, and judges, the same thing.
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:There's no age limit on them, but
eventually, and we'll, we'll dive into it.
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:Eventually people become unhinged, right?
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:There's not, they're not
there psychologically, right.
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:To, to do the job that they're
supposed to do at the level
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:that they're supposed to do it.
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:Chris P. Reed: Well, I think the
situation is Tony, it's not even so
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:much about the age, but about the.
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:Uh, the mental acumen, the ability
to understand and rationalize
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:the responsibilities of the role.
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:I'll give you a couple of instances, but
in the instance, we'll go to the police
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:officers in a moment, but let's just
stick to the highest office in the land.
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:Yeah, um, we have to have a check.
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:The whole.
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:Democratic Republic is based on a
series of checks and balances, right?
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:So, so there's a, there's a term in Latin,
case custodes, ipsos custodes, and that
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:is who will guard the guardians, right?
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:Who's policing the police, who's
telling the people who are supposed
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:to be in charge that enough's enough.
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:And the good thing about this current
situation is that the Democrats
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:chose to guard the guardian.
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:Tony Tidbit: Correct.
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:Chris P. Reed: And they chose to say,
Hey, we're This is not good for us.
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:This is not how we want to
represent ourselves as a collective.
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:And so what we'll do is make
adjustments to not have this
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:represent us going forward.
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:Unfortunately, when you hear
the GOP, it's, that's how he
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:feels, you know, he's just crazy.
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:We don't all think like that.
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:We don't all feel like that.
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:And you can't absolve yourself
to sometimes be aligned with
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:someone who you've designated.
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:As your leader, your leader represents and
speaks for your interest and your vision
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:and your purpose at all times should be.
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:And so it's too much of a mixed bag.
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:Get this person evaluated to say, if
this is, if this is how he really is
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:and who he really is, then we have to
live with that and understand that.
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:But it's too often where they say,
well, that's not what he meant.
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:Those words are in English.
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:I speak English.
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:You speak English first language.
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:I understand the definition
of terms and words.
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:I'm taking it for face value.
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:I can't go, like I tell my wife all
the time, I can't go by what you mean.
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:I can only go by what you say.
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:Tony Tidbit: So just to be
clear though, because I just
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:want to make sure we're clear.
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:What you're saying is, I just want to
be clear is that for Trump, you have
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:people always trying to interpret.
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:What
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:he's saying, which could, to be fair,
he could be incompetent, psychologically
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:incompetent as well, but instead
of them calling that out, they're
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:In terms of just trying to
say, Oh, he don't mean that.
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:Well, you know, he
didn't mean it that way.
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:And, and, and to be fair, that's
a good point because as you get
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:older, I remember, I'm just going
to my own experience, right?
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:And as, as, as my parents and
grandpa, and you, they get older,
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:they start saying some crazy stuff.
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:And then you're like, what did they say?
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:And, and, but these were the
same individuals that had.
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:threw major wisdom on you
throughout your life, right?
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:And I remember this was years ago,
buddy, when I was in Hawaii, I was
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:over my, um, my girlfriend's house
and her mother said something to me.
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:I never forgot.
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:And she was talking about, I think
her mother was going through,
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:to your point, mental challenges
and stuff of that nature.
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:And she said something, she
said, look, always remember,
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:And I never forgot that.
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:And what she was meaning is, we
come into the world as a child.
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:Then we become an adult, but as
we get into our older ages, We
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:become childlike again, right?
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:And that's everybody, right?
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:So I hear your point in terms of,
you know, somebody always trying to
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:make excuses for somebody who may
be, they may be off the rails, right?
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:Where's their test?
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:Who's holding them accountable, and
when you say holding them accountable,
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:we're talking about holding them
accountable, we're talking the group
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:holding them accountable, right?
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:Well, as you said, what the Democrats
did when it came to Joe Biden, right?
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:Now look, net net, let's be fair.
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:This is all about winning.
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:So if somebody, you know, let's just
be fair now, if, if this had nothing
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:to do with winning, I don't think they
would have said nothing to Joe Biden.
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:They would have been like,
you know, happy trails, good
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:luck, whatever the case may be.
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:But this is about winning
and holding power.
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:And then when it's about winning and
holding power, then all bets are off.
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:And that's the, that's the other
thing about the other side.
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:They want to win.
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:And they feel that this person,
Trump is their best chance to win.
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:So, so what if he's senile?
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:All right.
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:So what if he ain't got
his faculties together?
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:We're going to prop them up.
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:And look, I'm not saying that, but I'm
just saying it's all when, when it's
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:about winning, people are willing to
do whatever it takes to get it done.
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:Chris P. Reed: I think we got to be
cognizant of the blast radius though,
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:Tony, like some wars are, the juice
is not worth the squeeze, right?
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:So we win this election at the cost of the
civility Of our nation and the sanctity
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:of our citizens at the reputation that we
forged and fought and died for that you
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:served for, to be honest with you, right?
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:Like we're, we're, we become a
laughingstock on so many different
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:accords where you have people that say,
uh, he's, he says so many irresponsible
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:things that are not classically aligned
with the role, even when in office.
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:That it should have been like, oh, my
gosh, I can't believe somebody of that.
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:It would say that after being
provided the platform in which he
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:has, he's, he's not very, he's not
very presidential with the platform.
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:And so we can go into policies and
things of that nature, whatever
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:the case may be, but it's not even
translating into goodwill and good kind
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:of pulling out of the Paris accord is
so many different things where we're
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:acting like these things didn't occur.
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:We're not going to get to
the insurrection right now.
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:But we're acting like.
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:Everything's a mulligan.
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:Like everything can't be a Mulligan.
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:No, you don't.
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:I mean, in that situation, we
have to hold people accountable.
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:If we're going to hold ourselves
as a society accountable.
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:And I think that for us on this
platform and this podcast, we as
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:black people are overarched in the
accountability factor, like we are.
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:We have to be used to black taxes,
all this other stuff, you know, for
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:a fact, there's no way Obama could
have not been top of the class.
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:Could have said whatever the hell
he wanted to say late for meetings,
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:not reading press reports, firing
people, friends, going to jail.
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:Can you imagine it would never
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:Tony Tidbit: happen?
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:Okay.
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:Chris P. Reed: Like, like Sam,
Jack said, in time to heal,
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:close your eyes, close your eyes.
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:Imagine he was black . Oh,
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:Tony Tidbit: yeah, yeah.
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:No, that was, uh, Matthew Macon.
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:Yeah, mcc, right?
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:Imagine that he was black.
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:All right.
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:Next thing him not guilty, man.
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:Alright.
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:No.
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:Come on.
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:She, he said Imagine if she was
white, but he was white, right?
415
:Imagine if was white saying Trump, right?
416
:If
417
:Chris P. Reed: Donald Trump oh,
was black, it is Donald Trump.
418
:Close your eyes.
419
:Close your eyes.
420
:No.
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:Imagine he was black.
422
:No,
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:Tony Tidbit: no.
424
:, it wouldn't have done finish.
425
:All right.
426
:And here's the thing, bro.
427
:You, so number one, you're not, and
listen, you're not saying nothing
428
:that hasn't been said a million times.
429
:The bottom line is, is his people
that don't want accountability.
430
:It's the people that support them that
are willing to listen to any excuse.
431
:All right.
432
:And, and that's where we've had,
we've degraded as a society.
433
:Because at the end of the day, the
president of the United States,
434
:it's more than just a power thing.
435
:It's about a moral thing as well.
436
:It's about how the world sees us, you
know, you know, you know, and you go back
437
:to, uh, uh, George Washington, right?
438
:Who, who chopped down the cherry tree?
439
:I can't tell a lie.
440
:I did it right.
441
:And then that was the thing that you did.
442
:You always tell the truth.
443
:Let's close our eyes and imagine
that, uh, Trump is George Washington.
444
:All right.
445
:He would have said, I ain't do it.
446
:All right.
447
:So blame somebody else.
448
:So, so at the end of the day.
449
:People, when people allow that
you're he's doing what they allow,
450
:okay, because they feel that he
has their best interests at heart.
451
:Right.
452
:And for whatever reason, so
you're 100, but buddy, we're
453
:way past the decorum part.
454
:Okay, way past that.
455
:Okay.
456
:And so unfortunately we are where we
are as a society and it's really and
457
:look and some people all you guys are
just know our political affiliation.
458
:That's number one.
459
:Okay.
460
:And number two, we're
calling it like we call it.
461
:We call it like we see it.
462
:All right, and you don't have to belong
to a certain platform to see that
463
:right is right and wrong is wrong.
464
:All right, that doesn't
even matter, right?
465
:What matters is, is the right thing,
the way you hold yourself as a person,
466
:as the character that you bring.
467
:Okay, especially to your point
when you're running for the
468
:highest off office on the planet.
469
:Okay, and we can say the planet
because here at the end of the day,
470
:I remember when I was in Europe.
471
:And the people in, in, and, and, um,
and, um, and, uh, the Netherlands
472
:and stuff, they were telling me more
about our politics than I was like,
473
:wow, how do you, why do you guys
know more about the U S politics?
474
:You know what they said, Tony,
because the U S leads the world.
475
:Okay.
476
:And what you guys say is.
477
:And we all have to deal with, okay,
so at the end of the day, those
478
:things to your point do matter.
479
:Chris P. Reed: Well, let me say,
and I'm not going with anything
480
:that's outside of precedent.
481
:Let me, let me kind of
shift it to law enforcement.
482
:In 2000, there was a
gentleman named Robert Jordan.
483
:And let me just give
you the quick and dirty.
484
:He applied to be a police officer.
485
:And end up being rejected from
being able to join the academy.
486
:And the reason why they openly
rejected him was because they said
487
:his test scores were too high.
488
:So he took this all the way to the 2nd U.
489
:S.
490
:circuit court of appeals in New York City.
491
:And it was upheld that
it wasn't discriminatory.
492
:Not to hire him, because his
test scores are too high and
493
:the rationale behind it was.
494
:He would end up getting bored at
the job because he was too smart.
495
:So this is something that's
in the laws, in the books that
496
:they are testing for things.
497
:And if that test should be applicable to
the job description, then a psychological
498
:evaluation, whether it be your bias,
your, your rage, um, you know, EQ.
499
:Your, you know, emotional intelligence,
all of that should be applied to jobs
500
:that are important like that, where
people's lives, you said it earlier,
501
:people's lives hang in the balance.
502
:And when you have someone, and we've
had so many instances where police
503
:officers have shown up and been, um.
504
:Unhinged term you use earlier
unhinged at the worst times.
505
:When it comes to especially black
and brown folks, it's because I feel
506
:there should have been more strict.
507
:Testing upfront or evaluations
periodically to see because
508
:they are stressful jobs.
509
:Like you said, previously, we have
friends and family that are in law
510
:enforcement that are in military
service, things of that nature.
511
:But when you put these people on
the streets and engage with the
512
:public as such a high regard, there
has to be responsibilities to make
513
:sure that you're putting the right
people in the roles and you're making
514
:sure you're checking in on them.
515
:Not just, hey, how you doing, but
going and talking to somebody and them
516
:signing off because the 1 thing that
hasn't happened to any of these trials.
517
:Have I heard that in his last conversation
with the department psychologist?
518
:He came out clean,
519
:Tony Tidbit: right?
520
:Chris P. Reed: You know, you don't
hear about and I understand hippo laws
521
:and all this other stuff, but damn,
the stakes are too high to put Rambo.
522
:Yosemite Sam, rootin this, tootin this
out there on the street with my kids, man.
523
:Tony Tidbit: No, you're a
hundred percent correct, buddy.
524
:And, and I, you know, I wish there was
a, um, you know, I, I wish there was a
525
:bipartisan, uh, department, you know,
department of mental fitness for, you
526
:know, certain roles that people would have
to, you know, it's like the NFL, right?
527
:You know, with the NFL football, back in
the day, the doctors work for the team.
528
:Okay.
529
:So you may, Chris, and you played
football in college, right?
530
:You may have pulled your hamstring, right?
531
:Which could have been really, really bad.
532
:And then the team doctor looks at
you and says, nah, he's alright.
533
:Okay.
534
:And then you go out and pull
your hamstring off the bone.
535
:Right?
536
:And so the doctor, Uh, interest wasn't
really about the, the, the player.
537
:It was about the team, making
sure that the player could play.
538
:So the team could keep making
money, have a chance to win.
539
:Right.
540
:So if you're going to have this type
of system, it has to be by, it has to
541
:be objective, it has to be separate.
542
:Right.
543
:Where it's not the president's
doctor saying he's okay.
544
:All right.
545
:Or the Secretary of State
doctor saying she's okay.
546
:Okay.
547
:It's got to be a separate entity that
they deal with on a yearly basis.
548
:And then they give the green
light and they're not connected
549
:from a political standpoint.
550
:And I think that, I think that should
be in almost any, like you said, major,
551
:uh, position in walk, on walk of life.
552
:Chris P. Reed: Because it adds to
accountability because if I signed
553
:off on you and then it's determined
that, Hey, a lot of behavior, a lot of
554
:instances, a lot of opportunities where
this person didn't act according to the
555
:role came up, I need to explain myself.
556
:I then as a psychologist, the
psychiatrist have to explain why I
557
:saw something different and why I
checked the box to say, You're fit
558
:to get back on the street when police
officers are involved in shootings.
559
:They have to go to a mandatory
Uh, assessment before they can get
560
:out of the desk from behind the
desk, like these things are there.
561
:It's not farfetched, but I believe
these things should happen more
562
:up front instead of us being
thirsty to fill roles and quotas.
563
:And man, we, you know, Sam, what's
you that's what's going on in some of
564
:these roles where people getting badges
and guns and all this other stuff.
565
:And in some of these roles where you
have people sitting behind benches,
566
:that when you look at the track record,
when this person comes in front of
567
:you, It always goes this way, right?
568
:And for whatever reason, when
this person comes in front of you,
569
:it goes a different way, right?
570
:That's telling,
571
:Tony Tidbit: right?
572
:Chris P. Reed: There
should be investigation.
573
:There should be, like you said,
uh, uh, non bias party, right?
574
:That's able to assess these things
and make sure because if we're not
575
:as a nation being fair, being just.
576
:And being, uh, established in
the way in which the forefathers,
577
:I think really meant it to be.
578
:Now they wouldn't talk about us.
579
:We're not going to get into that on
this episode, but they wanted it to be
580
:fair and equitable in the regard of,
for a society to run appropriately,
581
:you have to have checks and balances.
582
:And we are so adverse to being
checked or told anything.
583
:If we have a certain moniker of power.
584
:Tony Tidbit: Exactly, buddy.
585
:But let, let, let's, let's, let's
take that to the next one, right?
586
:Because you talked about,
you know, a police officer.
587
:Um, and being able to, um, uh,
have these type of evaluations
588
:to make sure that they are safe
mentally to go out and do the job.
589
:So one of the other things that
happened while we were away
590
:was the song, Sonya Massey.
591
:Uh, murder, but in Chicago,
uh, outside of Chicago,
592
:Chris P. Reed: Springfield,
Springfield, Springfield,
593
:Tony Tidbit: Illinois,
outside Chicago, right.
594
:And, uh, and what happened to her?
595
:So if anybody's been sleeping under
a rock and don't know anything
596
:about this story, let's play the
clip in terms of what happened.
597
:News Reporter: For body camera
video just released of the moment,
598
:a sheriff's deputy shot and killed
a woman in central Illinois.
599
:Well, Jim and Marie, this police
encounter turns deadly in just seconds.
600
:And we need to warn viewers,
the body camera footage is
601
:graphic, but not right away.
602
:The officers who were called to
her home spent several minutes with
603
:her gathering information about
the 9 1 calls she initially placed.
604
:The conversation appears to be
wrapping up about a minute later.
605
:Is there anything else I can do for you?
606
:They notice the stove is on.
607
:Massey goes over to the pot of
water, and things take a fatal turn.
608
:Sonya Massey: Oh,
609
:I would rebuke you in the name of Jesus.
610
:You better not, I'll shoot you in the face
611
:News Reporter: Deputy Grayson's
body camera shows his vantage
612
:point as he raises his weapon.
613
:Massey places the pot down, puts
her hands in the air, and ducks.
614
:Grayson shoots.
615
:It may have been a little unclear to
see, so Massey said something about,
616
:I rebuke you in the name of Jesus, and
the deputy said something about, You
617
:better not, I will shoot you in the face.
618
:Chris P. Reed: So, when we talk about
hitting close to home, this occurred less
619
:than 50 minutes from where I grew up.
620
:In central Illinois, and, um, so it
spread pretty quickly and came back
621
:around and deputy Grayson, former deputy
Grayson, um, this is something I can't
622
:imagine how these words turned into those
actions with a docile, timid, small,
623
:you could see this woman in her frame.
624
:You could see the makeup of the situation.
625
:In fact, she was instructed to go and
do something with the pot on the stove.
626
:There was no opportunity for a fire to
break out or anything this escalated and
627
:went to a place that I can't imagine how
it's going to be defensible or defended or
628
:expressed or explained by the police union
or whomever has to defend this, because
629
:this is indefensible, but it goes back to
something we've talked about in the past.
630
:Tony, what do we tell ourselves?
631
:Our family, our children, if not to
act in the way in which she acted.
632
:To go down to the ground, like
all the instructions that police
633
:usually give is what down to the
ground, hands up, blah, blah, blah.
634
:And then got shot in the face in her home.
635
:There's something called
the castle doctrine.
636
:And basically it gives you the right
to, it used to be life, liberty, and
637
:property in the original declaration.
638
:And now it's life, liberty,
and produce sort of happiness.
639
:But that property thing is very
important to property owners.
640
:So when you're in your home, you
have a right to defend your castle
641
:and maintain your sanctuary.
642
:She was in her sanctuary
and this occurred.
643
:And thank God for cell
phones and body cams.
644
:Because I don't know how this could have
played out if not for the video imagery.
645
:Tony Tidbit: Well, so number one, we,
we knew, we know how it played out.
646
:Okay.
647
:They hid it until the video came out.
648
:Okay.
649
:They said that she, um, they didn't
even report it correctly, but let's
650
:back up because there's a few things
you said and in the video that everybody
651
:saw, and if you're listening online,
Please go to our website to watch
652
:the video, um, if you haven't, which
this has been all over the place.
653
:So I would imagine you haven't seen
it, but you know, some people don't
654
:pay attention to these things.
655
:Um, let's back up.
656
:She called the police because
there was an intruder.
657
:She believed there was an intruder.
658
:The police came, they looked
around, and they saw one of the
659
:cars that's in front of her house or
in the driveway, I can't remember.
660
:The window, the side, the
passenger window was smashed.
661
:So evidently there was somebody, okay?
662
:So they come in, they said, Hey!
663
:You know, you called, we're checking,
we walked all the way around, we looked
664
:at things, we didn't see anything,
you know, and she said, yeah, I heard
665
:something, she said, can I come in?
666
:Yeah, come in.
667
:And then they were like,
okay, blah, blah, blah.
668
:Hey, can you give us your driver's
license so we can make the report?
669
:We need your ID.
670
:They were going just friendly banter
and she said, Oh, I'm trying to see,
671
:I can't look, I'm looking forward.
672
:And then one day, one of the officers
say, Hey, why don't you look right there?
673
:She's looking in her purse.
674
:And then all of a sudden she
said, Oh, I left the stove on.
675
:Okay.
676
:And he was like, well, let's
definitely turn the stove off.
677
:We don't want to burn up in here.
678
:And they were laughing.
679
:Okay.
680
:And then she goes over.
681
:Right.
682
:To turn the stove off.
683
:And then she says, I rebuke
you in the name of Jesus.
684
:And then this dude loses his mind.
685
:And going back to what you were
saying earlier about psychologically,
686
:psychological competency.
687
:Okay.
688
:Did it seem like he was competent
because a woman, a small frail
689
:woman, and look, she made her family
says she had some mental issues.
690
:Okay.
691
:So let's be fair.
692
:But the bottom line is for him to go off.
693
:And then if you look at the video.
694
:She had the pot of water and he said,
if you do that, she put the pot down
695
:and then said, I'm sorry, and put
her hands up and then duck down.
696
:What did he do?
697
:He moved over to the side to get a better
shot and shot her three times in the face.
698
:And then when his partner says, Oh,
I'm going to get the first aid kit.
699
:What did he say?
700
:Nah, no need for that.
701
:It was a headshot.
702
:She's gone,
703
:Chris P. Reed: right?
704
:Tony Tidbit: I wasn't gonna let her
throw a f ing pot of water in my face.
705
:That's
706
:Chris P. Reed: right.
707
:Tony Tidbit: So where is
the protect and serve?
708
:Where is that?
709
:Where is it?
710
:Where's the humanity?
711
:Okay.
712
:There's a million things
that this guy could have did.
713
:All right.
714
:He didn't deescalate.
715
:He escalated over and, and
here's the kicker, man.
716
:And let's go back to that.
717
:That, uh, psychology thing.
718
:He, she said, I rebuke
you in the name of Jesus.
719
:Jesus.
720
:All right.
721
:Now look.
722
:I grew up in the church.
723
:Okay.
724
:And I'll be honest with you.
725
:What I've learned when somebody says that
and somebody goes off, that means that
726
:they already had, you know, evil spirit.
727
:They already evil for
them to jump like that.
728
:They're evil.
729
:They're evil, buddy.
730
:Because anybody, how would
that make you pull your weapon?
731
:And said, what?
732
:I'll shoot you in the face by saying that.
733
:Come on, man.
734
:So, and then we talk about it.
735
:And you spoke a little bit.
736
:You and I chatted while I was
gone a little bit about this.
737
:And then you wanted you chat a little
bit about at least things have gotten
738
:better, which in this situation,
when you look at it, like how.
739
:You spoke a little bit in
terms of the accountability.
740
:You want to talk a little bit about that?
741
:How I do the accountability
742
:Chris P. Reed: to tie into where
we're, where we're transitioning from.
743
:We talked about her history and to be
transparent in her, uh, record of mental
744
:health or whatever the case would be.
745
:He also happened to have a
history of excessive behavior.
746
:In different police forces to
which he had been fired from,
747
:Tony Tidbit: was it three times?
748
:I think it was and
749
:Chris P. Reed: they had released
audio of conversations where, uh,
750
:uh, his former superior said, listen,
you can't keep your liability.
751
:You're a liability in your actions
as a law enforcement officer.
752
:Somebody who's in one of these positions
we talked about where you shouldn't
753
:be this way or present this way.
754
:We know better and we can't have you
here because you mean us no good.
755
:And then he could just go get another
job doing this somewhere else that
756
:there should be a record that travels
kind of like with school, right?
757
:There should be transcripts that
758
:Tony Tidbit: follow this
759
:Chris P. Reed: dude.
760
:Tony Tidbit: But to your point earlier,
man, you said it when we were talking
761
:about, you know, the president is not,
um, number one, nobody's so you can, it's
762
:like this, man, you get fired from a job.
763
:Okay, legally, they're not, if you
come up with some type of agreement,
764
:legally, they're not supposed to say
nothing about why they fired you.
765
:Okay.
766
:And so you can go and get another job
somewhere else and be, you know, uh, not
767
:a great performer, the whole nine yards.
768
:When it comes to, and going
back to your earlier point, when
769
:it comes to these positions,
okay, that where is the records?
770
:Are the records being shared?
771
:Okay.
772
:About.
773
:This person's background, who's
coming to be a police officer in your
774
:force, who's coming to engage with
the community in your area, right?
775
:Where's the checks and balances
to make sure that this person
776
:that you're going to hire.
777
:Not if physically, uh, fits the
bill mentally fits the bill, because
778
:evidently he didn't that's the issue.
779
:That's the major issue.
780
:This person didn't.
781
:All right.
782
:And you said something earlier in our
1st segment, but I want to go back to it.
783
:You said, and I don't I'm paraphrasing.
784
:You said, hey, we can't
be trying to set quotas.
785
:All right, to be.
786
:And so right now in a lot of
the police departments, because
787
:there's not a lot of people that
signing up to be police officers.
788
:So they're under the gun.
789
:And I'm not going to say this
happened with the Springfield police.
790
:I don't know, but I know a lot
of, a lot of places are having
791
:a hard time hiring people.
792
:So they taking chances on people
like this, that's just a fact.
793
:Okay.
794
:They're willing to look the other side.
795
:Well, you know, when he shoot
nobody, he may have stomped them.
796
:All right.
797
:Or he may hit him a couple of times
with baton when they asked for a cookie.
798
:All right.
799
:Well, you know, he ain't shot nobody yet.
800
:And we can, we can work that
we can train them out of that.
801
:Right.
802
:We can train them out of that.
803
:And they hire these individuals.
804
:And, and here's the, my last thing
that I want to hear your point.
805
:You said the body cam.
806
:Okay.
807
:Now, buddy, they fired them.
808
:They did all these things.
809
:As soon as the body cam footage came up.
810
:This was a few weeks earlier.
811
:Okay.
812
:And where was number one?
813
:Where's the partner?
814
:The partner was there.
815
:Why didn't the partner say my partner
shot this lady in the face for no reason?
816
:Where was that?
817
:Okay.
818
:There was a total cover up
until the video came out.
819
:Then they fired him.
820
:Okay.
821
:That's the issue.
822
:There's a million issues here,
but Wait, the partner was there.
823
:He saw it.
824
:Where did that go?
825
:So until we have full account, so
if the video didn't come out, this
826
:would have been a lady that nobody
would know what happened to her.
827
:I think they told her family.
828
:I can't remember exactly what it
was, but they told something that
829
:she died some other way, right?
830
:Oh, they said an intruder killed her.
831
:I could be wrong, but I thought
that's what the narrative was, right?
832
:When he shot it, where is
the, where was the partner?
833
:Where's his story?
834
:Why didn't he come out and
it should be breaking news.
835
:A police partner, uh, uh, rats,
uh, him out and talked about
836
:how he killed this, this woman.
837
:Chris P. Reed: You know, another
way to put it is somebody
838
:does the right thing, right?
839
:And so he was raised, right?
840
:His parents raised him, right.
841
:And he stood up for what he believed
in, what he signed up for as a person
842
:to protect and serve our interests.
843
:The, the, the reality of it is
I'm conflicted, um, in multiple
844
:ways, but definitely as a
black person, as a girl, dad.
845
:So many different ways in the fact
that one of the previous arguments
846
:that we've had on this platform
and that I've heard is, uh, the
847
:person was put on administrative
leave, barring investigation.
848
:Um, this was strung out and this person
got a chance to live late life and
849
:exact a pension or retire, or they
had so many options that they didn't
850
:afford the victim in the moment.
851
:And for once this is, and, and, and
I might not be up on this stuff.
852
:So please forgive me audience,
but for once, this is the
853
:first time I've heard of.
854
:Once the stuff came out, the person was
immediately fired, charged with first
855
:degree, not manslaughter, not something
that could be bargained down or pled down.
856
:Even George Floyd thing
wasn't first degree.
857
:This is first degree homicide and
discharge of a weapon and some
858
:other charges that hopefully they're
going to stick because that would
859
:just be a horrible situation.
860
:But in the idea of All the things
that we have been protesting for and
861
:asking for, which is accountability
and the law to work both ways.
862
:When they do something wrong,
they get arrested immediately.
863
:No bond, no bail, no nothing
because of the heinous act.
864
:That was transmitted against the victim
that all those things did happen.
865
:Now, I understand the timing of it
because the guy didn't tell on him.
866
:But if we go past that, when they
knew they did something, and then
867
:I look up and in Chicago, they
protested and I'm thinking, what
868
:are we protesting his behavior?
869
:Like, what are we, if we're not
protesting the fact that you didn't
870
:catch this beforehand, which is what
we're discussing today, correct.
871
:The, the, the actions, all you can do as
a society is respond when things occur.
872
:You can't, it ain't minority.
873
:It ain't 1984, you know what I'm saying?
874
:Where we do, uh, mental, you
know, uh, uh, uh, cognition, uh,
875
:crimes and things of that nature.
876
:We can't predict when somebody
gonna go left and yeah, pre cry.
877
:Right, right.
878
:It's not minority report, but once
it happened, I was proud of the
879
:state of Illinois, I was proud
of Springfield to make sure that
880
:this person was put behind bars.
881
:And held accountable for what he did
to this woman's life and to her family.
882
:Then when I saw the protest, I was
confused as the message that we're
883
:actually transmitting from a protest
perspective, because, and I'm just going
884
:to be very candid here on this platform.
885
:White folks is like, what
is we supposed to do then?
886
:Damn, do we dare, do we
do, damn, do we don't.
887
:You gonna take to these
streets no matter what.
888
:Tony Tidbit: So I didn't, to be
fair, and you're educating me on some
889
:stuff that I haven't been privy to.
890
:So I haven't seen the protest.
891
:So what are they protesting about?
892
:Chris P. Reed: So when they went to
Chicago, they were protesting the
893
:police, this has happened again.
894
:And we got to come to terms with the fact
that black and brown people are being
895
:killed arbitrarily by police officer.
896
:And we're calling them bad apples
when it occurs or rogue agents
897
:or whatever the case may be.
898
:But the reality of it is, everything that
the governmental bodies did after the fact
899
:was actually in line with what we have
been asking for, which is do something.
900
:Because before, you noticed, Tony, Them
cats was going on administrative leave.
901
:You will see them on Instagram, you
know, taking this money and going on
902
:vacation with their families, dropping
their kids off for school and shit.
903
:Like it was crazy.
904
:It was crazy.
905
:If this person had a normal life and
was out on bond, not even a bond, they
906
:wouldn't even indicted or arrested.
907
:It was just like, we'll,
we'll see if we can prove that
908
:what you saw is what you saw.
909
:And this was a turn of events
where, Hey, you can't pull the
910
:wool over our eyes anymore.
911
:This happened and different than with,
um, the girl is in the Louisville.
912
:I apologize that I can't recall
her name right off hand, but, uh,
913
:Tony Tidbit: Oh, you're talking
about, uh, Breonna Taylor.
914
:Chris P. Reed: Breonna Taylor, Breonna
Taylor, Breonna Taylor, it was, it
915
:was, it was until proven beyond a
shadow of a doubt that they was in
916
:the wrong, that something actually was
done at that, you know, so the time,
917
:and you notice from the first 48, once
you get further away from the crime.
918
:Memories and situations and evidence
starts to be tainted and change a lot.
919
:Right?
920
:And so the fact that this was handled
in such a swift manner, I applaud that.
921
:I am one that will applaud that, but
I don't know what more we could do.
922
:And I feel like protesting
might have sent a message.
923
:A message to where no matter what
we go, we're going to have issues.
924
:So here's
925
:Tony Tidbit: the thing, bro.
926
:And I, so number one, I
hear your point of view.
927
:Um, and, and let me just say this.
928
:I was on vacation and when I saw
it, I protested, I, I, I don't know
929
:if you saw it or not, but I did
a quick little, uh, I spoke about
930
:it and, and it made me feel like.
931
:People, when we talk about
the police, they don't see
932
:black people as people, buddy.
933
:Chris P. Reed: That's correct.
934
:They don't see us
935
:Tony Tidbit: as human.
936
:You shoot a lady in the
face three times, I'm sorry.
937
:And I don't, and women, you
move over to get a better shot.
938
:Okay.
939
:A little woman who you, who you can
see that she's had some mental issues.
940
:And, and you feel that that, so
that's the part that bugs me is
941
:that they don't see us as full human
beings, because here's the thing.
942
:This dude, yeah, he, and
again, he's got a record.
943
:What other person, what white
person did he shoot in the face?
944
:Why, what, what other?
945
:So that, that's my issue is that.
946
:You know, these things are still
happening and they only, they only
947
:being exposed because of the video.
948
:How many things are being, that's
happening on a daily basis around this
949
:country with, with law enforcement and
people of color that don't, that you may
950
:not get to murder, but don't get exposed.
951
:All right.
952
:I can tell you a quick
story about somebody.
953
:I'm not going to say his name,
but he's been on this show.
954
:And he's got a high level
position and he was in his office.
955
:Okay, in the came in to get some paperwork
and the police officer came in and said,
956
:get your hands up and blah, blah, blah.
957
:And this dude and he was trying
to say, hey, I'm a professor here.
958
:I'm this and I don't and
it was ready to shoot him.
959
:And finally, the dude saw his I.
960
:D.
961
:That he was, he could have been dead
that you don't hear about that on T.
962
:V.
963
:He didn't go.
964
:I mean, he went off and, and, and, and,
and the university, you know, they held
965
:them accountable and blah, blah, blah.
966
:But my point is That was body cam.
967
:There was nobody, you know, we
ain't nobody was protesting him.
968
:That's a story.
969
:That's a story that
happened so many times.
970
:Okay, that we don't even know about
this guy could have got killed
971
:just being in his own office.
972
:So, so I don't think I hear your point
and, and yeah, should we say, you know,
973
:we give them credit for being holding us
accountable, but I'm going to be honest.
974
:I don't want to get nobody.
975
:No credit for something.
976
:That's just cutting dry.
977
:It's not right.
978
:That you should be doing all the time.
979
:I mean, you can't be, it wouldn't
even be that, you know, we, we at
980
:that level now that we got to be
okay with them doing the right thing.
981
:No, I, I just, and then
where's the partner?
982
:See, this is where I go to, are
we talking about the right thing?
983
:The right thing would have
been forget a body cam.
984
:The partner came out, talked to eternal
affairs and said, you know what?
985
:I can't live with this.
986
:This is what he did.
987
:Then, in my opinion, we're
moving in the right direction.
988
:But had no, no body cam came out,
it would have been covered up.
989
:That's it.
990
:That's just a fact.
991
:, it's hard, right?
992
:Chris P. Reed: Hard because the
blue code, the, the, the brotherhood
993
:code, the unwritten rules, all that
other stuff that they talk about.
994
:But, but I'm telling you, Tony,
the theme still resonates here in
995
:having a master's in psychology.
996
:They make the test, they make
the test with enough questions
997
:to where you can discern Yes.
998
:Is this person Yes, yes.
999
:Have a predisposition Yes.
:
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:01,870
For this type of reaction?
:
00:47:01,870 --> 00:47:02,020
Yes.
:
00:47:02,050 --> 00:47:04,540
Have a predisposition for
the, they make the test.
:
00:47:04,540 --> 00:47:06,970
We have to invest in the test upfront.
:
00:47:07,180 --> 00:47:10,080
Because the cost is too
great to us on the back end.
:
00:47:10,100 --> 00:47:10,500
No,
:
00:47:10,550 --> 00:47:12,570
Tony Tidbit: and you're
100 percent right, buddy.
:
00:47:12,830 --> 00:47:14,320
You're 100 percent right.
:
00:47:14,580 --> 00:47:15,640
Here's the thing, though.
:
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:17,980
We're running out of time.
:
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:22,010
Hey, we do, we do.
:
00:47:22,090 --> 00:47:22,790
You know what I'm saying?
:
00:47:22,799 --> 00:47:26,019
Because we got, we got a few other
things that we got to get into,
:
00:47:26,019 --> 00:47:27,200
but we ain't got time to do them.
:
00:47:28,130 --> 00:47:28,610
All right.
:
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:30,940
But here's the thing, though, my brother.
:
00:47:31,020 --> 00:47:37,550
You know, um, You know, and, and I,
I don't want to diminish the point
:
00:47:37,550 --> 00:47:42,570
that you made, because to be fair,
we've seen it where they made excuses.
:
00:47:42,570 --> 00:47:44,680
And again, going back to
where we started, right?
:
00:47:45,039 --> 00:47:47,140
They made that, you
know, they made excuses.
:
00:47:47,249 --> 00:47:50,350
Well, he was in the, the, the
hot water was 200 degrees.
:
00:47:51,009 --> 00:47:53,380
So if it fell on him, he
would have disintegrated.
:
00:47:53,410 --> 00:47:53,780
Right?
:
00:47:53,780 --> 00:47:58,100
So he, I know, you know, they
make these excuses, right?
:
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:03,560
This time they didn't, I, I just,
I've seen, we've seen so many things
:
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,820
that's been cut and dry and they
still like, well, you know what,
:
00:48:09,340 --> 00:48:10,840
they're going to get off, right?
:
00:48:11,090 --> 00:48:14,550
And so it just, it just makes
me mad because you know what?
:
00:48:15,300 --> 00:48:17,040
Sonya Massey could have been my mother.
:
00:48:18,020 --> 00:48:18,320
Chris P. Reed: That's right.
:
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:18,720
Tony Tidbit: Okay.
:
00:48:18,730 --> 00:48:21,670
And I'm not saying that
just to use it as a symbol.
:
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:25,840
My mother and she got what we talked
about once an adult, twice a child.
:
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,340
My mother, when she got older,
she didn't have all her faculties.
:
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:32,020
She wasn't 100 percent there all the time.
:
00:48:32,299 --> 00:48:36,030
She could have got mad if the person
didn't go get there quick enough
:
00:48:36,030 --> 00:48:39,930
and say something and this and that
and then she gets shot in the face.
:
00:48:41,145 --> 00:48:42,315
Three times.
:
00:48:43,205 --> 00:48:47,475
All right, that buddy, that's where
we have to, that's where I, I get
:
00:48:47,475 --> 00:48:53,175
upset because when I talk about
humanity, I don't care how off you
:
00:48:53,175 --> 00:48:58,735
are, this is another human being in
front of you and you, you're there
:
00:48:59,025 --> 00:49:04,125
to, she called you to help her.
:
00:49:05,530 --> 00:49:09,940
And that got all, that
was lost, became lost.
:
00:49:10,290 --> 00:49:15,030
So, you know, it, that, that story
really, it is still, it still bugs me.
:
00:49:16,150 --> 00:49:16,620
Chris P. Reed: It does.
:
00:49:16,620 --> 00:49:19,429
But I think Tony, and
I'm big on preaching.
:
00:49:19,470 --> 00:49:21,070
We have to learn to take wins.
:
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:27,080
Um, and the idea of this is the first
opportunity I'll get in my lifetime
:
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:32,160
to see the system work in the intended
way that it was supposed to, if this
:
00:49:32,190 --> 00:49:35,995
goes through and he actually gets
convicted and all of the, The things
:
00:49:36,005 --> 00:49:40,595
that are before him actually come to
pass because I'm old enough to be around
:
00:49:40,595 --> 00:49:42,325
and remember when Rodney King happened.
:
00:49:42,805 --> 00:49:48,245
And so think about how many years ago
that was, and I've never, I've never seen
:
00:49:48,765 --> 00:49:51,714
a situation where they acted like this.
:
00:49:51,964 --> 00:49:55,095
And I've seen many situations
where we were brutalized.
:
00:49:55,325 --> 00:49:57,575
I've seen many situations
where we were killed.
:
00:49:57,775 --> 00:50:00,135
I've seen many situations where
they accidentally didn't go for the
:
00:50:00,135 --> 00:50:02,424
taser and went for the gun instead.
:
00:50:03,065 --> 00:50:04,795
And other cops was right there.
:
00:50:04,945 --> 00:50:08,145
Not just one, a multitude
of cops I've seen.
:
00:50:08,175 --> 00:50:10,325
And to the credit of.
:
00:50:10,695 --> 00:50:14,225
Of the situation, I've seen Memphis
that we talked about with Tyree
:
00:50:14,225 --> 00:50:19,355
Nichols, where black officers allow
for each other to act with impunity
:
00:50:19,504 --> 00:50:20,835
and do these types of things.
:
00:50:20,855 --> 00:50:24,484
And didn't nobody came and told
I've seen this and this is the
:
00:50:24,485 --> 00:50:26,615
1st time action has been taken.
:
00:50:27,385 --> 00:50:32,395
As soon as the information was available,
and I'm just going to take this small
:
00:50:32,395 --> 00:50:37,835
win and hope that it cascades into a
new policy going forward that it's okay.
:
00:50:38,170 --> 00:50:39,260
To do the right thing.
:
00:50:39,330 --> 00:50:40,300
Judicial system.
:
00:50:40,650 --> 00:50:42,180
It's okay to do the right thing.
:
00:50:42,210 --> 00:50:44,390
Police law enforcement
system, legal system.
:
00:50:44,715 --> 00:50:47,735
Because up until now, I
don't know if it works,
:
00:50:47,785 --> 00:50:48,005
Tony Tidbit: right?
:
00:50:48,045 --> 00:50:50,605
Chris P. Reed: No example
before me has shown me if
:
00:50:50,605 --> 00:50:51,825
police can be held accountable.
:
00:50:51,855 --> 00:50:52,665
Tony Tidbit: Right, right.
:
00:50:52,775 --> 00:50:56,365
So what we're going to do,
because I'm going to use what
:
00:50:56,365 --> 00:50:57,594
you just got finished saying.
:
00:50:57,825 --> 00:51:00,924
And I'm, I'm, I'm talking to
the third person when you said,
:
00:51:01,205 --> 00:51:03,744
I've seen, I've seen, I've seen.
:
00:51:03,805 --> 00:51:03,985
Yeah.
:
00:51:03,994 --> 00:51:04,394
Okay.
:
00:51:04,395 --> 00:51:06,115
So we're going to play this clip.
:
00:51:06,835 --> 00:51:11,425
Um, so you can see, so everybody
can see about how this white woman
:
00:51:11,735 --> 00:51:14,464
walks in to the police station.
:
00:51:15,025 --> 00:51:17,245
In Bristol, Connecticut with a gun.
:
00:51:18,185 --> 00:51:18,645
Okay.
:
00:51:18,715 --> 00:51:23,755
With a gun and start shooting
in the police station with a gun
:
00:51:24,355 --> 00:51:26,635
and let's see how they treat her.
:
00:51:26,885 --> 00:51:27,385
All right.
:
00:51:27,965 --> 00:51:28,345
All right.
:
00:51:28,564 --> 00:51:29,175
Let's watch it.
:
00:51:29,895 --> 00:51:33,105
News Reporter: A woman was caught
on camera firing a gun inside
:
00:51:33,105 --> 00:51:34,815
a Connecticut police station.
:
00:51:35,304 --> 00:51:39,385
Surveillance video shows a 51 year
old woman entering the lobby of the
:
00:51:39,385 --> 00:51:43,475
Bristol police department appearing
to have a gun aimed at her head.
:
00:51:43,730 --> 00:51:48,220
She knocks on the front desk window with
her left hand, with a gun in her right.
:
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:53,400
After banging on the window several times,
the woman shoots into a door, then towards
:
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,370
the front desk, according to police.
:
00:51:55,889 --> 00:51:58,640
The bullet resistant
glass did not shatter.
:
00:51:59,180 --> 00:52:03,220
After firing, she removed her
jacket and took a seat in the lobby.
:
00:52:03,545 --> 00:52:07,705
More shots were fired towards a door
where authorities say police officers
:
00:52:07,705 --> 00:52:09,535
were attempting to enter the lobby.
:
00:52:10,275 --> 00:52:12,995
Officers used a taser
to subdue the shooter.
:
00:52:15,595 --> 00:52:19,015
The shooter was taken to the
hospital for evaluation and was
:
00:52:19,045 --> 00:52:20,704
later released to authorities.
:
00:52:20,884 --> 00:52:24,185
She was charged with several
offenses, including attempted
:
00:52:24,185 --> 00:52:25,925
murder with special circumstances.
:
00:52:26,795 --> 00:52:27,215
So what's
:
00:52:27,215 --> 00:52:27,395
Tony Tidbit: your
:
00:52:27,395 --> 00:52:27,915
News Reporter: thoughts on
:
00:52:27,915 --> 00:52:28,185
Tony Tidbit: that?
:
00:52:28,185 --> 00:52:28,545
My man,
:
00:52:30,655 --> 00:52:33,145
Chris P. Reed: you know, is what back
to close your eyes, close your eyes.
:
00:52:35,565 --> 00:52:38,035
I mean, they came out, she
had take off the jacket.
:
00:52:38,044 --> 00:52:39,125
She got relaxed.
:
00:52:39,315 --> 00:52:43,195
She was exercising her rights as
a citizen to do whatever she just
:
00:52:43,195 --> 00:52:45,824
did to the fullest of its extent.
:
00:52:46,315 --> 00:52:52,625
I mean, and the, the reaction of
the, when deescalate, that was a
:
00:52:52,625 --> 00:52:55,805
shining example of the aptitude.
:
00:52:56,215 --> 00:52:57,905
To not take it
:
00:52:58,055 --> 00:52:58,825
Tony Tidbit: to the worst level.
:
00:52:58,825 --> 00:53:01,335
They did everything that they
could not to kill this woman.
:
00:53:01,705 --> 00:53:02,265
Okay.
:
00:53:02,335 --> 00:53:02,805
And then what did they do?
:
00:53:02,805 --> 00:53:04,415
They tased her.
:
00:53:04,725 --> 00:53:05,015
Okay.
:
00:53:05,015 --> 00:53:05,865
She got tased.
:
00:53:05,975 --> 00:53:08,085
And then a few days later, where was she?
:
00:53:08,785 --> 00:53:09,345
In court.
:
00:53:10,425 --> 00:53:10,655
All right.
:
00:53:10,965 --> 00:53:13,095
So, so they did everything.
:
00:53:13,105 --> 00:53:15,625
And, and look, I applaud
them for doing that.
:
00:53:15,875 --> 00:53:16,185
Right?
:
00:53:16,185 --> 00:53:16,455
We do.
:
00:53:16,495 --> 00:53:18,422
I'm not saying they
should have blasted her.
:
00:53:18,422 --> 00:53:19,155
I'm not saying.
:
00:53:19,265 --> 00:53:20,325
That's what you should do.
:
00:53:20,345 --> 00:53:21,085
You try, try.
:
00:53:21,245 --> 00:53:26,705
Every, uh, a mechanism in your power to
make sure that there's not a loss of life.
:
00:53:27,115 --> 00:53:30,505
All right, but when it comes to
people call it that doesn't happen.
:
00:53:30,714 --> 00:53:31,495
It just buddy.
:
00:53:31,495 --> 00:53:31,825
Come on.
:
00:53:31,844 --> 00:53:37,085
Let's be fair now So that's why I get
upset right when I see how they did
:
00:53:37,085 --> 00:53:41,750
the right thing For this lady who was
going through some mental issues, okay?
:
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,620
She even told somebody at the bar she
was at, I'm going to shoot a police
:
00:53:44,620 --> 00:53:46,330
station, and went right there and did it.
:
00:53:46,620 --> 00:53:49,940
All right, banged on the window
the whole nine yards, right?
:
00:53:50,110 --> 00:53:53,100
And then sat back, smoked
a cigarette, right?
:
00:53:53,490 --> 00:53:55,209
After she shot a few times.
:
00:53:55,339 --> 00:54:00,200
And they did everything under
their power to not kill her.
:
00:54:00,610 --> 00:54:04,960
And so I applaud them for doing that,
but that should be the way that should
:
00:54:04,970 --> 00:54:07,610
be standard operating procedure.
:
00:54:08,330 --> 00:54:08,980
Okay.
:
00:54:09,570 --> 00:54:10,890
With all people.
:
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:11,680
Right.
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And that's why I get upset, my brother.
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Chris P. Reed: And it's, it's, it's
unfair and unequal in so many instances,
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but I do believe that there has
to be a universal, um, excitement.
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When the system works the way in which
it was intended and as much as I hate
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that I knew that that person had to when
I heard the story, I was like, oh, easy.
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That's easy.
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But I know what I know
exactly what happened here.
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I don't I don't need to kind
of see it, you know, play out.
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But but the reality of it was,
I like, like you said, I applaud
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the officers that were involved.
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I applaud the way in which they
were trained and them activating
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the training in such a way.
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But I applaud the opportunity to
deescalate and it being exacted to where
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that woman and her children still have
her in the family today, because if
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she, she absolutely posed a threat, they
didn't know if she had more than one
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gun, they knew that shots were fired.
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There was a discharge of firearm
of a public place in a, in a
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precinct, all these other things.
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It wasn't hot water.
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Like when you juxtapose these things.
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That's my point.
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It's more re it wasn't hot water.
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More re
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Tony Tidbit: I mean, just way
more re that exactly Brother.
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Look, we gonna have to leave it there.
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Okay.
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Oh yeah.
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Um, and, and
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Chris P. Reed: once again,
thank God for the video because
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I wouldn't have believed it.
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I wouldn't have believed story when you,
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Tony Tidbit: ain't nobody come in,
no woman came in there shooting
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a, a gun in a police station.
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Left, left, left, breathing right, left,
left breathing, and then left breathing.
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Right.
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And then was in court a couple of days
later where she had a defense attorney,
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you know, take it up for, well, you
know, she has three kids and, you
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know, and she, one of the kids got down
syndrome and she's really stressed out.
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All right.
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So listen, we hope number one,
I want to thank my brother.
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Chris P.
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Reed the co host with the most.
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So we thank you for tuning into another
episode of A Black Executive Perspective
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00:56:11,300 --> 00:56:17,020
Podcast with Chris Reed and myself
talk about BEP's insights on the latest
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events and headlines that happened in
the U S and we're going to continue
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00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:22,850
to do this every couple of weeks.
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We're going to, you know, talk
about the things that's going on
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00:56:25,250 --> 00:56:26,540
and give you our points of view.
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00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:28,710
But now I think it's time for what?
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Tony's Tidbit.
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All right.
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And the tidbit today is, you
know, each event holds a lesson.
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00:56:38,045 --> 00:56:41,195
Discussions aim to reveal these lessons.
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Foster a deeper understanding
to inspire action and awareness
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00:56:47,375 --> 00:56:50,145
in our ever evolving world.
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00:56:50,425 --> 00:56:53,455
And that's why we talk about these
things, because at the end of the
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day, we want to bring them to light.
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00:56:55,205 --> 00:56:56,464
We want to learn from them.
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And then more importantly, hope,
hopefully we can see change and
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inspire some people to do the same.
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00:57:02,175 --> 00:57:06,225
To make these things better and
these, this is why you need to
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00:57:06,265 --> 00:57:09,465
continue to have these conversations
with your friends and family.
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00:57:09,685 --> 00:57:13,145
And look, not everybody's
going to agree that is fine.
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00:57:13,284 --> 00:57:16,275
Chris and I, as you can see here
disagreed on a couple of things, right?
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00:57:16,505 --> 00:57:17,335
But guess what?
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00:57:17,765 --> 00:57:21,145
It's all about discussion and what
we can learn from one another.
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00:57:21,155 --> 00:57:23,185
So let's make sure that we do that.
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00:57:23,765 --> 00:57:28,665
And then also we want to make sure that,
uh, we employ you to tune in to our
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00:57:28,665 --> 00:57:32,344
weekly segment, need to know witness
singer, you know, don't miss this
:
00:57:32,345 --> 00:57:33,905
week's need to know segment with Dr.
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00:57:33,905 --> 00:57:36,945
Nsenga Burton on A Black
Executive Perspective Podcast.
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00:57:37,265 --> 00:57:38,235
This is where Dr.
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00:57:38,235 --> 00:57:41,705
Burton dives into timely and crucial
topics, kind of like the one we did
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00:57:41,705 --> 00:57:43,185
today, but she's so much deeper,
:
00:57:43,185 --> 00:57:44,765
so much more in depth to these things.
:
00:57:45,035 --> 00:57:48,625
And she shapes our community and world
with her perspective and her views.
:
00:57:48,905 --> 00:57:52,775
Tune in again, unique insights and deepen
your understanding of issues that matter.
:
00:57:53,165 --> 00:57:54,415
You don't want to miss it.
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00:57:54,435 --> 00:57:54,735
Trust me.
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00:57:55,005 --> 00:57:55,675
Exactly.
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00:57:55,675 --> 00:57:57,975
You don't, because she's got
some really good stuff coming up
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00:57:58,015 --> 00:57:59,265
this Thursday, so check it out.
:
00:57:59,285 --> 00:58:02,965
So again, I hope you enjoyed
our episode, BEP insights,
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00:58:02,965 --> 00:58:05,195
navigating today's top headlines.
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00:58:06,534 --> 00:58:07,505
Chris P. Reed: And then don't forget.
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Our call to action to
incorporate less L E S S.
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Make sure that wherever you can, you
learn, empathize, share, and stop.
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00:58:19,635 --> 00:58:21,135
The L is for learn.
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00:58:21,615 --> 00:58:26,005
Educate yourself on racial and cultural
nuances that you can apply to your
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life and help others around you.
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00:58:27,725 --> 00:58:28,655
Tony Tidbit: Exactly, Chris.
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And the E stands for empathy.
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Once you've learned, now you
should be more empathetic to
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00:58:35,015 --> 00:58:39,105
your brother and sister and other
people that fall within your path.
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00:58:39,105 --> 00:58:39,584
And
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00:58:40,765 --> 00:58:42,165
Chris P. Reed: then the
first S is for share.
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Share your insights.
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00:58:44,185 --> 00:58:45,255
And enlighten others.
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Don't hide it.
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Divide it.
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00:58:46,715 --> 00:58:49,895
Because these type of dialogues,
these type of conversations are the
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only way we can grow collectively.
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00:58:51,565 --> 00:58:54,825
Tony Tidbit: And then the final S, and
this is something everybody can do.
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00:58:55,375 --> 00:58:56,345
We want to stop.
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00:58:56,685 --> 00:58:57,805
S stands for stop.
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00:58:57,825 --> 00:59:00,275
To stop discrimination as
it comes into your path.
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00:59:00,775 --> 00:59:03,845
So in other words, if grandma says
something at the Thanksgiving table
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00:59:03,855 --> 00:59:07,215
that's inappropriate, you say,
grandma, we don't believe in that.
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00:59:07,475 --> 00:59:10,055
And you stop it right
in there in your tracks.
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00:59:10,275 --> 00:59:12,895
And by doing this, you're
going to help us build a more.
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00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,310
Understanding and fair world.
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00:59:15,770 --> 00:59:16,770
And guess what?
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00:59:16,930 --> 00:59:20,190
We'll be able to see the
change that we all want to see.
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00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:24,850
So remember less because less equals more.
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Don't forget to tune in to
the next episode of A Black
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Executive Perspective Podcast,
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